How to hurt us
I’ve gone through a lot of pains and heartaches in the past. Men are not the only heartbreakers in this world. Women, too, break our hearts. Right, guys?
I managed to compile how women hurt OUR hearts based on my personal experience and also from my friends’ experiences. Here’s the list:
1. Answer the guy who courts you. Then a few months later, tell him you never loved him.
2. Kiss him then tell him it’s nothing to be concerned about. It was just a friendly kiss.
3. Spend more time with him. Act like you care about him or pretend that you are starting to like/love him then tell him how you like/love another guy.
4. Blame the guy for not exerting any effort to save your relationship.
5. Sleep with another guy and tell your guy how lame he is in bed.
6. Keep photos of your ex in your wallet.
7. Have a guy best friend and tell your guy how great you feel when you are with your best bud.
8. Spread nasty rumors about your guy to your friends. Sooner or later, he’ll find out.
9. Get in contact with your ex.
10. Be passive to his physical or emotional advancements.
11. Show that you’re bored as hell when he talks. The “ah ok” and “I see” works just fine. Silence often kills.
12. Don’t show up during dates. Then later on, tell him you had more important things to do.
13. Don’t appreciate what he does.
14. Make fun of his mistakes.
15. Completely stop communicating with your guy. He’ll go crazy for sure.
All of these will surely have your guy’s heart bleeding. Enjoy.
Water Lily said,
January 7, 2009 at 9:10 am
Hmmmmm… Is that it? Wait til you see the girls’ list!!
If I were a boy…I think I could understand how it feels to love a girl. I swear I’d be a better man!
Hehehehe
shenzee said,
January 7, 2009 at 9:43 am
hmmmm… it goes both ways… i can make a long list of men’s mistakes too, but it wont prove anything…
a bit emo nowadays eh? heheh
Meikah said,
January 7, 2009 at 9:59 am
Sad and true. I always believe that both men and women hurt, and hurt deeply. That’s why I wish everyone, no matter the gender, would be sensitive to the other person’s feelings.
Di bale, you’ll find you’re one true love in His time. There’ll still be hurting but it will be all worth it.
xar said,
January 7, 2009 at 11:12 am
I can relate to #4 and #13..haha
L.A. said,
January 7, 2009 at 11:46 am
@shenzee: Please. I want to read your list. Haha.
@xar: Personal experience with the girl who you went out a with a couple of nights ago and all of a sudden changed her mind? Haha.
Z'riz said,
January 7, 2009 at 12:10 pm
I agree with Ehn there… love is a two-edged sword dba?
And lists don’t prove anything, too….
rabsin_d said,
January 7, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Hmmmp…ehem…no comment…wahehehe!
KVillanueva said,
January 7, 2009 at 1:46 pm
Haha. Funny but true. But your list could also work the other way around. Guys can be bitches at times, and if I were to make a list on how bitchy they can be in hurting the girls, I just don’t know how long that list could go on. =)
xar said,
January 8, 2009 at 12:52 am
The point is,we’re just human. We made mistakes no matter what our gender is.
Man can be as nasty as woman and the other way around. Once, you are in a relationship, you should not look on what’s negative but the other way around.
Arggghh, makalibog. Anyways, just remember the golden rule always.
“Don’t do to others what you don’t want others do unto you”
L.A. said,
January 8, 2009 at 10:20 am
Thanks for your insights.
lurchie said,
January 8, 2009 at 11:54 am
LOL.. wow naman. so many fans.
bah! men, women, men, women…
just make sure you don’t hurt anybody.. or at least try.. then you’re good cguro :d